| Location | Cumbria |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 31/08/2009 |
| Date of Death | 28/08/2009 |
| Visitors | 3,831 since 12/11/2009 |
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Finlay was our very much wanted fourth baby and was to make our family complete. He was growing well and kicking strongly and Mummy loved to feel his lovely long legs. We were planning our second home birth and were ready and excited for him to arrive. When I was 36+4 weeks pregnant I realised my little boy had stopped moving. We went to the hospital and a midwife tried to find Finlay's heartbeat but she couldn't find it so another midwife tried. The doctor came in to do a scan and as the midwife squeezed my hand we heard those three terrible words, the ones that are said to others, not you. "I'm so sorry". Our precious boy's heart had stopped beating and there was nothing that could be done. In that moment mine and daddy's hearts broke too.
I was induced the following day and on Monday 31st August 2009, at 9.16pm the most beautiful baby in the world was born, weighing 4lb 11oz. He was pink and warm and we waited for the cry that never came, still hoping that the doctors had been wrong.
We never got to look into his beautiful eyes or hear his cry. We got to hold him but couldn't say goodbye. We didn't want it to be goodbye. We held his funeral at 4.00pm on Friday 11th September and had to walk away for the last time.
We don't really know why he died because he was perfect, the consultant thinks the placenta wasn't good enough to support him, we can only hope he didn't suffer in any way.
Our hearts are broken and will always ache for our Finlay, who we will remember everyday of our lives until we are with him again. Our world has been torn apart and we must live with this pain forever. We struggle everyday to accept this has happened to us and live in hope waiting for the day we wake up from this terrible nightmare, to find Finlay safe in our arms.
We love and miss you more each day Finlay xxxxx
Thank you to everyone who kindly lights candles and leaves tributes for Finlay. It touches our hearts that others care about our little boy. xxxx
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.................................By Joanna Fuchs............................................
ALL MY LOVE TO ALL MY ANGLES
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Here's a festive greeting
Thats as special as they come
So from my family to yours,
May your day be filled with fun
And happy memories from yesteryear.
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(( HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL HAPPY NEW YEAR .))
I would like to thank you all of you my dear friends for ever thing you do for my angles love you all big hugs. It helps to know you all care and love them too and understand to all of you are my support and help keep me going love you all for that take care all my love Sylvie bye for now.
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Thinking of you at Christmastime
You're in my thoughts today
You've only gone to Heaven
To watch over us each day.
Today we'll spend together
just like we always do
I'm sending Christmas Wishes
with love
from me to you.
Christmas blessings
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GOODNIGHT GODBLESS ANGEL ~
`♥ Christmas Without You`♥
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Christmas without you here with me,
can never possibly be the same.
But I carry an Angel within my heart;
one so precious, who has your name.
An Angel forever watching over me,
at Christmas time, and over the year.
Although you can't be here anymore,
inside my heart, you are so very near.
There is no special present for you,
wrapped up under my Christmas tree.
But I have a greater gift to give to you;
all the love you can still feel from me.
No, Christmas time without you here,
could not ever possibly be the same.
But, I have had the precious gift of you,
and the memories and love, will remain.
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All my love Sylvie
Into another year we head without you
As time unfolds another year
Memories keep you ever near
Silent thoughts of time together
Hold memories that will last forever
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If we could have one lifetime wish
One dream that could come true
We'd ask with all our hearts
For yesterday and you
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Missing you every day Finlay xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
A precious Nephew
I have a little Nephew,
Who means the world to me
He's living with the Angels
And is as special as can be
And even though he's up there,
Playing in the clouds
He's still my precious Nephew
And I am so very proud
I know I cannot hold him,
Or bounce him on my knee
But only have to close my eyes,
His little face to see.
I never will stop missing him
And wishing he were here
But sometimes I feel, indeed I know
That he is very near.
So play happily my precious Angel
I love you so and always will,
And you will never be forgotten
I am your Aunty still xxxxx
Happy 2nd birthday finlay xx
A flower may die,
The sun may set,
But a special baby like u,
I'll never forget,
Your name is precious,
It will never grow old,
Its engraved in my heart,
In letters of gold ! xxxx
I hope you have a very special angel birthday finlay lots of love and hugs from aunty steph xxxx
Happy 2nd Birthday my precious little boy
I'm sending a dove to heaven with a parcel upon its wings
Be careful when you open it for it's full of beautiful things
Inside are a million kisses wrapped up in a million hugs
To say how much we miss you and send you all our love xxx
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They say there is a reason
They say that time will heal
But neither time nor reason
Will change the way I feel
For no-one knows the heartache
That lies behind our smiles
No-one knows how many times
We have broken down and cried
We want to tell you something
So there won't be any doubt
You're so wonderful to think of
But so hard to be without
If we could visit heaven
Even for a day
Maybe for a moment
Our pain would go away
We'd wrap our arms around you
And whisper words so true
that living life without you
Sure is hard to do
These are not my words but it helps that others can help me tell you how I feel. Another year has passed but it's no different from the last. It hasn''t gotten easier and I don't expect it ever will, how could it when you are not here.
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Hello baby
My heart is heavy all the time Finlay, I want to remember you with a smile but it's still too hard. I miss you and the life you should have had. You are almost 2 and I'm sure you would be such a cheeky little boy, causing chaos wherever you went but loved my everyone.
I miss you.
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*♥* SENT WITH LOVE TO YOU ANGEL *♥*
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Thinking of you is Easy,
We Remember you each day.
The heartbreak that we feel
Just never goes away,
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Nothing is the same no more
As we try to carry on,
We want the way it was before.
We found out you were gone,
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Yes we have our memories,
We also have the pain,
But all we ever wanted ..
Was to have you home again.
♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱
Copyright Jan Morris 2009
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